✝️ Are You HONESTLY Loving Yourself?
God’s Love vs. Self-Rejection: Break the Chains of Unworthiness Today
Many Christians walk in shame, insecurity, and self-hatred—unaware that these are not just emotions but spiritual attacks from unloving spirits. These demonic forces work to separate us from God, ourselves, and others, leaving behind a trail of broken identity, rejection, and performance-based living.
Jesus commanded us in Matthew 19:19:
“Love your neighbor as yourself.”
It’s not just a suggestion—it’s a commandment. You can’t love others well until you love yourself rightly.
😔 How Unloving Spirits Enter
Unloving spirits often enter through:
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Childhood trauma or rejection
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Generational curses of self-hatred
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Verbal abuse (internalizing “you’re stupid” or “you’re worthless”)
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Critical or perfectionist upbringings
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Occult or New Age counseling methods that separate identity from Christ
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Self-harm, addictions, self-condemning language
Not being loved or valued growing up
Parents too busy or extreme perfectionists. Nothing you did was ever good enough
Even if your ancestors hated themselves, lived in shame, or used witchcraft to “fix” themselves, that doorway can affect YOU until it’s closed in Jesus' name.
🔎 Questions to Evaluate Yourself Honestly:
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Do you love and accept yourself as God created you?
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Are you secretly mad at yourself or constantly blame yourself?
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Have you said things like “I’m stupid,” “I hate myself,” or “I’ll never be good enough”?
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Do you hide behind makeup, appearance, or achievements for value?
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Are you in guilt, shame, self-pity, or performance-driven living?
These are signs of demonic interference. God's voice affirms; the devil's voice condemns.
👿 Manifestations of the Unloving Spirit:
Emotional/Spiritual
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Self-condemnation
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Self-sabotage
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Self-pity
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Identity crisis
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Rebellion against how God made you
Physical
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Autoimmune diseases
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Chronic fatigue
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Eating disorders
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Anxiety disorders
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Self-harm urges
Relational
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Isolation
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Performance addiction
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Fear of rejection
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Competitive or prideful attitudes masking insecurity
People pleasing
These spirits erode your ability to love, receive love, and see yourself as God sees you.
📖 What Does Scripture Say About You?
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Psalm 139:14: “I am fearfully and wonderfully made.”
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Ephesians 1:4: “He chose us… to be holy and blameless in His sight.”
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Romans 5:18: “Through one act of righteousness there resulted justification of life to all men.”
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2 Corinthians 10:5: “Take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ.”
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Luke 10:27: “Love your neighbor as yourself.”
You are not your past, your mistakes, your trauma, or your appearance. You are God’s beloved.
😈 Root Spirits Behind Unloving Lies
Here are the spirits you may need to confront and cast out:
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Self-rejection – says you’re not good enough
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Self-hatred – invites infirmity and sickness
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Self-condemnation – labels you a failure
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Perfectionism – makes love conditional
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Insecurity – causes you to be overly sensitive
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Self-pity – feeds the victim identity
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Unworthiness – blocks blessings
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Self-sabotage – prevents you from accepting promotion or love
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Suicidal thoughts – from a spirit of elimination
🛐 Warfare Prayer for Freedom
Prayer of Renunciation and Freedom from the Unloving Spirit:
Lord Jesus, I repent for believing lies about myself and agreeing with spirits of self-hatred, self-rejection, and shame. I break every agreement with these unloving spirits and command them to leave me now in Jesus’ name and never return!
I declare Your Word over me: I am fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139). I am chosen, holy, and loved (Ephesians 1:4). I am forgiven and accepted (Romans 5:18).
Fill me now, Holy Spirit, with Your truth, peace, and love. Restore every part of me that was wounded or broken by these lies. In Jesus' name, amen.
🔓 Use the 8Rs for Deliverance
Use these anytime a negative thought or emotion rises up:
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Recognize the lie or unloving thought
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Take Responsibility for letting it into your heart
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Repent to God
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Renounce the spirit (e.g., self-rejection)
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Remove the demon: command it to leave
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Resist it if it returns—quote Scripture
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Rejoice in your freedom
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Restore relationships and walk in new identity
🪞Daily Mirror Truth Declarations
Speak this over yourself daily—especially in the mirror:
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“I am accepted in the Beloved.” (Ephesians 1:6)
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“I am not condemned.” (Romans 8:1)
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“I am complete in Christ.” (Colossians 2:10)
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“I am loved, I am healed, I am whole.”
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“I am a gorgeous hunk of dust!” 💫
💡 Healing Tip: Replace Lies with Scripture
Every time you hear:
“You’re stupid, you’re unlovable, you’re a failure”
Say:
“I take that thought captive in Jesus’ name. I am God’s masterpiece. I have the mind of Christ. I am loved and chosen.”
God asked Adam in Genesis 3:11:
“Who told you that you were naked?”
God never gave that thought. It came from a spirit being whispering lies—and Adam agreed.
Don’t agree with Satan’s narrative. Speak God's identity over yourself.
🎯 Final Deliverance Challenge
Declare this every day for 40 days. Let God re-parent you with truth. Reject the counterfeit, and watch Him replace insecurity with confidence, shame with joy, and fear with perfect love.
We need to know the promises for us.“Perfect love casts out fear...” — 1 John 4:18
“Be transformed by the renewing of your mind...” — Romans 12:2
1. He did not give us a spirit of fear but of sound mind. 2 Timothy 1:7 - God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind. Romans 8:15 - For you did not receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption by whom we cry out, "Abba, Father."
2. He supplies all our needs. Philippians 4:19 “And my God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus.”
3. We can do ALL things in Him. Philippians 4:13 “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”
2 Corinthians 10:4 “For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds” 5casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ”
Teresa Morin
President of Touch of God Int’l Ministries
🌐 https://www.touchofgod.org
Of Healing and Deliverance, Ordained Minister, Public Speaker
📣 Featured in Who's Who Press Release
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